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Picky Eating and Portion Sizes by Age

Tap your child’s age and what is hard at meals. You will see how much a child this age really needs and tips that help.

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About this tool

This tool helps parents of picky eaters. Tap your child’s age and what is hard at meals (vegetables, few foods, small appetite, filling up on drinks, or mealtime battles) to see child-size portions, healthy drink amounts and tips that fit.

A good starting portion for toddlers and preschoolers is about 1 tablespoon of each food per year of age. Children do best with 3 meals and 2 to 3 snacks at regular times, water between meals, and limited milk and juice. New foods can take 10 to 15 tries.

The advice follows the American Academy of Pediatrics (HealthyChildren.org) and the 2019 healthy drinks recommendations. The tool also lists choking safety for children under 4 and signs that a child should see the doctor, such as weight loss or eating very few foods.

Common questions

How much should a toddler eat?

Toddlers need less than many parents think. Start with about 1 tablespoon of each food per year of age, offer 3 meals and 2 to 3 snacks a day, and let your child decide how much to eat. Appetite changes from day to day.

How do I get my picky toddler to eat vegetables?

Keep offering small amounts without pressure; it can take 10 to 15 tries. Serve vegetables first when your child is hungry, try dips or roasting, let your child help cook, and eat vegetables yourself.

When is picky eating a problem?

Call your child’s doctor if your child is losing weight or not growing, often gags, chokes or vomits with eating, eats fewer than about 20 foods, drops whole food groups, or gets very upset by new foods.

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